{"id":489,"date":"2017-01-12T10:29:29","date_gmt":"2017-01-12T18:29:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=489"},"modified":"2017-01-13T21:28:34","modified_gmt":"2017-01-14T05:28:34","slug":"jealousy-and-envy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=489","title":{"rendered":"Jealousy and Envy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is a woman, Teal Swan, and she has a wealth of knowledge she shares. This video is has a point of view about jealousy and envy that is really interesting.<\/p>\n<p>I summarize her view this way: Envy is the emotion we experience when we have an extreme desire for something\u00a0 someone has that you don&#8217;t think you can have and believing you are not worthy of it. Jealousy is the emotion we feel when we are afraid of losing something of great value to us. So, on occurs when we want to keep what we have and the other occurs when we want to get what we don&#8217;t have. In both cases we are in fear. This is a form of lack.<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/J8FAoDCmLc4?rel=0\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe> \u201cDon\u2019t set your mind on things you don\u2019t possess\u2026but count the blessings you actually possess and think how much you would desire them if they weren\u2019t already yours.\u201d<br \/>\nMarcus Aurelius<\/p>\n<p>Jealousy and envy exist when we are in lack and see ourselves as separate from all others. If, in fact, we are all one, then anything anyone else has or gains is already part of us. Its the ego concerned with a threat.<\/p>\n<p>Jealousy a precious thing your going to lose.<br \/>\nEnvy, what precious thing do you not have and want?<\/p>\n<p>What do you believe you lack? Make a list of how many ways you do have that thing in your life. Or, think of a person who has significantly less than you do in your area of lack and imagine how that person would feel looking at your life.<\/p>\n<p>Jealousy and envy are very powerful in that they tell us precisely what we want and what we need.<\/p>\n<p>In relationships jealousy often arises because of a third party threat and we do what we can to eliminate the threat to our connection with someone. We feel unincluded. Better to use the feeling to deepen our connection with our partner and ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>Jealousy happens to all of us at sometime. Soothe yourself by accepting it is okay to feel the way you feel. Now look at your beliefs, feeling this way means there is a painful part in you connected to this feeling. Emotions are connected to your thoughts. Thoughts create emotions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a woman, Teal Swan, and she has a wealth of knowledge she shares. This video is has a point of view about jealousy and envy that is really interesting. I summarize her view this way: Envy is the &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=489\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3W5HT-7T","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":180,"url":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=180","url_meta":{"origin":489,"position":0},"title":"Pain","date":"November 20, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"Emotional pain and attachment to life October 9th 2012 There is no pain worse than emotional pain. 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