{"id":493,"date":"2017-01-16T17:39:56","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T01:39:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=493"},"modified":"2017-01-16T17:46:03","modified_gmt":"2017-01-17T01:46:03","slug":"imposter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=493","title":{"rendered":"Imposter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like an imposter? Most people do at times in their lives. I know I have experienced being trusted to do something that I have learned either in school or on my own and thinking, &#8220;who am I to be doing this?&#8221;\u00a0 Well, eventually we accept that we really do know how to do the things we do. But what about the new things? What about our work?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What holds us back from being more confident at work is often a sense that we are fundamentally different from those who succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Too often we leave the possibility of success to others, as we believe our own negative self talk and see our own flaws so clearly. \u00a0This gives way to the \u201cimposter\u201d syndrome, where we incorrectly believe others to be perfect and ourselves to be lacking.<\/p>\n<p>We know ourselves from the inside, but we know others from the outside, from a narrower and more edited source of information.\u00a0We suffer \u2013 needlessly \u2013 from this negative belief we are an imposter, and a fraud.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This is a self esteem issue and this video below is a clever and succinct explanation with added good advice.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/eqhUHyVpAwE\" width=\"671\" height=\"377\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Here is the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/schooloflifechannel\"> link<\/a> to the web page where I discovered this. You might like this website.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like an imposter? Most people do at times in their lives. I know I have experienced being trusted to do something that I have learned either in school or on my own and thinking, &#8220;who am &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=493\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[19,12,10,31],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s3W5HT-imposter","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":489,"url":"http:\/\/olympichypnotherapy.com\/communications\/?p=489","url_meta":{"origin":493,"position":0},"title":"Jealousy and Envy","date":"January 12, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"There is a woman, Teal Swan, and she has a wealth of knowledge she shares. 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